Although doing just about anything online, from shopping to research, is the norm, not everyone sees online dating that way. Well meaning friends and family members ask why and don't understand. They think it's dangerous or weird. But looking for love isn't a tragedy or a defect. It's a situation. You want a new job, you post your resume with the objective of finding a good fit with an employer. Online dating is the same-- your goal is to find a good fit with other singles you have something in common with. Yes, you can meet new people in your neighborhood or at your office or gym. But if you want to expand that pool of potential dates, reach a little broader. Online dating can help you do that, while at the same time narrowing down the type of person you really want to meet. Only want to date people of your same religion? Great— there are plenty of online dating sites based on religious background. Really want to meet someone over age of 60? Easy enough with online dating sites catering to seniors. What if you're a lesbian? You can meet other single women online. If you haven't tried online dating yet, give it a try. You have nothing to lose but could gain a special someone!