The truth is there are no hard and fast rules, but the following guidelines should help you have better dating experiences:
#1 Listen to your gut. If a potential date’s actions or words set off an internal alarm system, you owe it to yourself to pay attention and act accordingly. For example, if you’ve met someone online and they seem interesting, then you talk to them on the phone and they sound completely different (in a negative way), you may decide not to meet them in person. If you were on a date with someone and they seemed nervous but well intentioned, your gut might tell you to give them a second chance. By going on a second date, you’ll gain a better understanding of who they really are and if you’d like to see them again.
#2 Actions speak louder than words. When someone’s actions are contrary to their words, it’s definitely gut-check time. By paying attention and screening out potential partners whose actions don’t match their words, you cut down on wasted dating time and can focus on attracting potential partners who are worth your time and energy. For example, your date might be nice to you, but if they treat the waiter or valet poorly, that speaks volumes about their true character.
#3 Don't play games. Call when you say you’re going to call. Do what you say you’re going to do, and be honest when the other person asks if you’d like to go out again. If you don’t want to see them again, say so in a kind and considerate way. Try online dating today!